Tips For Giving A Speech At A Wedding
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1. Take practicing it seriously: Writing a good marriage speech is something that will take a lot of time and dedication. It's recommended that you should at least start one month before the big wedding. It's okay to practice in front of a mirror too!
2. Make it personal: A marriage speech is memorable and very natural and real. Don't google speeches on the internet because it won't work! Don't forget that the happy couple should be the focal point, your speech should celebrate their love and union.
3. Tell a story: A successful marriage speech takes the guests through a wide range of emotions, from tears to laughter. Don't forget to mention at some point that you are delighted to take part in this joyful day. Tell a story about a touching moment or memory that you shared with the couple or the bride/groom. And give the bride and groom some advice for the future.
4. Ask your friend's opinions: Giving a speech on this special day is both an honour and a source of enormous responsibility, no question about it. Don't hesitate to ask the opinion of your friends so you know that you're on the right track.
5. Rely more on your preparation than on improvisation: It's undeniable that a wedding speech is a difficult thing to improvise even if you are a natural-born public speaker. Try repeating your speech as much as possible and know that nothing is stopping you from using your notes.
6. Use humour: Using humour from the start of your wedding speech can really capture the attention of your audience. And you don't even need the talent of a stand-up comedian to do it. But be careful not to embarrass your audience with sex-related or bad or inside jokes.
7. Combine simplicity with effectiveness: Aim on writing a concise speech that is to the point. The more you draw out your speech, the more you're at risk of boring your audience. Announce from the start that you won't be long and the guests will be grateful.
8. Keep calm: Do you rush to the bar to overcome your stage fright? It is not a good idea to be tipsy for the reception, it risks taking away from the special moment.
9. Speak loudly and clearly: Think about enunciating and taking little pauses and above all breathe! It's one thing to do your speech in your bathroom but another to have hundreds of eyes staring at you.
10. Have fun: A marriage speech is also a present to the happy couple. Let it come from your heart and be genuine. Are you scared of blushing, stammering or getting caught on your words? Be assured that public speaking is a skill that many people appreciate. Smile, it's only a (terrifying) 15 minutes to get through!
