There are several ways to have great sex. They range from open communication about your wants and needs to a willingness to commit time and energy to ensure that your partner gets off and has as much fun as you do. However, for some couples though, sex can be a little one-sided. This is where the concept of a pillow princess comes in.
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The term pillow princess refers to women who do nothing except lie on their backs during sex. It usually refers to someone who receives oral sex regularly but does not reciprocate. However, it is not just limited to oral sex. The idea is that a pillow princess is just concerned with getting their rocks off, not with assisting their partner in doing so.
Is it only limited to LGBTQ+?
Although this term originated in the LGBTQ+ community and is meant for queer women primarily, it is increasingly being used by straight guys as well. However, there was a time when it was exclusively associated with lesbian or bisexual women. The term has only expanded in recent years, and it is no longer surprising to hear a man remark that a girl he dated was a pillow princess.
The pillow princess is a name for a girl who does not reciprocate in bed, particularly when it comes to delivering oral sex. A pillow princess is a girl who enjoys receiving pleasure but does not make an effort to return it. They may be lazy in bed or simply inexperienced and shy, but at the end of the day, a pillow princess is a female who enjoys one-sided sex.
Are you one?
There are several ways through which you can judge if you are one or not. There are a few ladies that consider themselves pillow princesses because it is their preferred way of enjoying sex. However, there are selfish pillow princesses as well who believe they have the right to get pleasure in bed without returning it. For instance, if you receive more head than what you give, you might be one. Other than that, your choice of sex position also determines if you are a pillow princess.
Usually, if you prefer positions like missionary, spooning or doggy – the sex positions where you just have to lie down. It is not a good sign. Further, when things get steamy, and you like being tied down only because it means you do not have to do anything. Lastly, if you pay more attention to the TV playing in the background, you undoubtedly are a pillow princess.
