As we know, the 5 love languages is a concept invented by Dr Gary Chapmanwhich helps people work out when they feel most loved. This helps couples to make each other feel seen and loved in the ways in which they crave.
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So, let's use this information to our advantage and use it to help find a last minute present for your partner this holiday season!
Words of affirmation
People with this love language feel most loved when they hear their partner verbalise how they feel.So, ifyour partner's love language is words of affirmation they might appreciate receiving a volume of love poetry, handwritten love letters, an affirmation journal or you can get creative with the DIY and make them a compliment-a-day jar!
Acts of service
Those whose love language is acts of service appreciate small gestures of love and effort on a consistent basis. So, is there anyway that you can get them a gift that elevates their daily routine? For example, if they love coffee, why not get them a new coffee machine, or a specialty roast and their favourite syrup, so that they can have artisanal coffee at home every day. Bonus points if you make it!
Gifts
This might be the easiest love language to buy presents for! This type feels most loved by their partner when they receive or give meaningful gifts. If you or your partner have this love language, chances are, giving each other small gifts is a regular occurrence, so why not try going over the top this holiday season and make them feel like a child with so many presents to open on Christmas day! They needn't be expensive, but opening lots of small presents that made you think of them helps your partner to visualise just how much you love them.
Quality time
For those that value quality time above all else, activity based presents always hit the spot! That could look like going to the theatre, planning a trip, or taking cooking lessons together. Whatever the activity, make sure to be present and enjoy the time spent in each other's company!
Physical touch
If you or your partner's love language is physical touch, they might enjoy a treat that's all about pampering. Book a couples massage, an appointment at a luxury salon/barber shop, or buy them a couple's body painting kit.
Sources used:
Step Momming: '50 Gifts that Speak Your Partner’s Love Language'
