Height differences: we all have our preferences, but they aren’t always practical! Maybe you're someone who likes their partner towering over them, or maybe you like to be the one looking down. Whatever the dynamic, that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t have some great sex!
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The act of lovemaking is a complex and wonderful study of geometry. So, if you’re looking to make the most of your height difference in the bedroom, then let us show you how!
The cattle herder
Time to saddle up, partner! Differences in height are no match for this classic and versatile position: the cattle herder. How it works is simple, and the amount of fun you can have with it, no matter your height, is astounding.
Really, the best thing about this position is its versatility! You can switch it up and remix it in so many ways. You can bounce up and down, grind back and forth, and have the partner on the bottom do some thrusting; just go with the sexy flow and have fun with it!
How to do it:
Getting into it is easy. The penetrating partner lays on their back as the other straddles them with their legs. The person on top now has to simply sit down on the penis/dildo as it entersinto the desired orifice, or you can even just grind away. This can be extra saucy for people having vaginal sex, as the grinding can really stimulate the clitoris.
So, now you have another great sex position to throw into your arsenal (if you didn’t already) that can make life just as pleasurable even with a difference in height. Remember that sex is always enhanced by communication. Talking things out during and after sex can ensure that no matter the height difference, you and your partner are hitting the right spots!
Sources used:
Cosmopolitan: '9 Sex Positions for When You’re Way Different Heights'
The Face: 'The best sex positions for couples with height differences'
