Sexual practices are numerous, and we don't all like the same things. But it would be a shame to miss out on certain pleasures that promise true ecstasy. Such is the case with prostate massage, or the more trivial 'finger up the bum'. Here's everything you need to know about this aspect of sexuality, for men and women alike!
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What is prostatic orgasm or the P-Spot?
Even if women appear to be more inclined to this pleasure-giving practice, despite not having a prostate, many men are resistant to it. In an interview with Cosmopolitan, sexologist Axelle Romby explains that 'for straight men, anal pleasure has long been associated with homosexuality'.
Well, yes! For many heterosexual men, penetration is a matter for women and homosexuals. So it would seem that a finger in the anal cavity to reach their prostate is synonymous with a loss of masculinity, or at any rate, it's a taboo practice. But it's important to remember that sexual orientation and sexual practice are two very different things.
So let's break this taboo!
First of all, the anus area is a highly erogenous zone, and the prostate, that tiny gland located under men's bladders, provides the so-called prostatic orgasm that will send your man into heaven, if you know how to play your fairy fingers with well-cut nails! It's also known as the P-spot, in analogy with the G-spot in women, which is an erogenous zone that can provoke a great deal of pleasure if properly stimulated.
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Prostate stimulation: how does it work?
As with any practice that involves anal sex, there's only one watchword (after consent, of course): LUBRICANT. Next, let's remember that long fingernails won't do any good. Otherwise, in concrete terms, we start by caressing the area around the anus, using small circular movements with our fingers or even our mouth (provided we have impeccable hygiene), an obviously highly erogenous zone.
Then, if you feel like it, you penetrate gently (but surely), trying to reach the prostate, the little ball on the front of the rectum, which is supposed to swell as arousal increases. Like all orgasms, prostate orgasm won't necessarily be achieved the first time around, but it will help to awaken our sexual desires! The key is always to be in tune with your desires and those of your partner!
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This article has been translated from Oh!MyMag FR.
