Good sex, just like people, comes in all different shapes and sizes. Variety is the spice of life they say, and so a quickie sure can be fun, but sometimes, a longer session is exactly what you and your partner need in the moment.
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However, a common problem faced by penis-owners is the delay of orgasm. But did you know that if you struggle with premature ejaculation, one thing that can help is the way in which you're having sex!
Yes, that's right, rather than any delay sprays, to extend your sex sessions, you'll want to pick a sex position that isn't too stimulating, but just the right amount. This might take a little trial and error to see what works best for you, but here's one of our recommended sex positions to not shoot your shot too soon!
Partner on top
Now, hear us out..! Typically, the thought of your partner riding you doesn't sound like it would delay orgasm. The visual alone is highly stimulating! However, using the right variation of this position is what is key to delaying your orgasm, whilst also ensuring that your partner is getting the intimacy and stimulation that they need!
How to do it
Rather than have your partner sit a-top you, have them straddle you then position yourselves chest to chest as you penetrate them. This allows for the sensory experience of deep penetration, but limits your ability to thrust, thus reducing the risk of over stimulation.
If your partner has a vagina, this position should be equally as pleasurable for them. Not only do they get to control the speed and depth of penetration, but the closeness of this position allows for a healthy dose of clitoral stimulation!
And don't forget, communication is as important as any other part of the sex act, so tell your partner what feels good (or what feels too good...) so that you can both enjoy the evening's activities for, hopefully, a long time!
Sources used:
Promescent: '12 Sex Positions to Help You Last Longer in Bed (With Images)'
