Reaching that big O isn’t the only goal of sex, but let’s not lie and say it isn’t something we want to experience most times! For vagina-owners, orgasming can be a complicated endeavour that can not usually be achieved through penetration alone.
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There’s a reason the orgasm gap exists! Due to a combination of penetrative sex moves favouring the penis owners, and a culture where vaginal pleasure wasn’t as important, we find ourselves in the current situation.
However, now is the time that we finally start to flip that narrative around! We want all vagina-owners to feel empowered in the bedroom, and know that their satisfaction is important too. That’s why we found you this position. It’s a little bit out there, but will ensure penetration in some unexpected angles, the opportunity for clitoral stimulation, and hopefully some big O’s from both partners!
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Like we mentioned earlier, this one can be a bit advanced, but it leads to some serious pleasure! Here’s how to get into it:
The penetrating partner lies on their back. Next, the penetrated partner sits down in the reverse cowgirl position, facing away from their partner. After being penetrated, the partner on top slowly lays back so that they are lying fully outstretched on their partner.
This will make the partner being penetrated feel like they’re floating on air, and the sultry thrusts will only make it better! This position is optimal due to the angle for hitting the G-spot and allows for great open access by either partner to the clit. When done right, this position will definitely work to get you off!
A word on pleasure
We also wanted to make sure that it’s said that positions like this can be great, but everyone is different. Strategies like this can help, but the best way to ensure maximum pleasure is to really explore yourself and what you like and do not. Then, armed with this knowledge, be sure to communicate with your partners about what you want and what will make you feel good. We can promise then that more orgasms will definitely be in the future!
Sources used:
Women's Health: 'These 7 positions make female orgasm way easier during sex'
Men's Health: '10 Sex Positions That Will Get Her Off Every Time'
