When you’re feeling in the mood, what’s better than fully indulging all your desires? The problem is, this is real life, and it’s easy to fall into the rut of a few same positions and quickies of only penetrative sex.
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We are in an era where people are encouraged to fully explore their sexual pleasures, and with many people wanting to increase overall intimacy with their partners, it comes as no surprise that upgraded foreplay has become such a sex trend as of late!
Penetration does not have to be the only act when getting spicy. Especially for the clit-havers, this can really limit pleasure. So, don’t think of this as upgrading your foreplay more as it is adding some extra moves, activities, and techniques to your arsenal that can extend your pre-penetration sexual exploits and ensure everyone gets off.
What exactly is upgraded foreplay?
The great thing about this trend is the versatility! So many fun moves and activities fall under this category. In fact, to refer to it as just 'foreplay' is only a simplification. These moves can be done in collaboration with penetrative sex or on their own!
The first tip is to mix it up. Variety is important and to really enhance your romantic life it’s important to discover you and your partner's wants. Really take the time to explore and enjoy your partner’s body.
Sensual activities like a romantic massage can be a great way to set the perfect mood. Escalate the action to mutual masturbation. Grind up on each other, make out hard. Of course there are the classics like fingering, and oral sex that can be the perfect way to get to the climax! Make it extra hot with tantricsustained eye contact and don’t be afraid to throw in some spanks.
Why it’s so great
By upgrading your foreplay, you’re in turn doing the same to your sex life. By exploring more about your body and taking the time to have the full romantic experience, it can make sex just that much better and beneficial. This can also be a great way to ease anyone with sexual anxiety into really feeling amazing and being comfortable. Penetration isn’t the only thing we have!
Sources used:
Woman and Home: 'Sex trends 2022 - discover the hottest new bedroom trends, according to experts'
Mind Body Green: '30 Ideas To Spice Up Sexual Foreplay, From Erotic To Romantic'
Bustle: 'Here's The #1 Thing 4,500 People Want In Bed'
